Conceiving after a M/C

Bexandantz Im sorry for your loss .. As for conceiving after my MC, it took us 5 months. I had a D&C and my specialist said it will help the conceiving process better than a natural MC would. I dunno if he meant 5 months but it felt like forever to me. I do know some people have conceived straight away.

Good luck hun. I hope it happens for you as soon as you're ready

After my "normal" miscarriage we tried straight away. Docs recommend waiting a month or two if you have emotional stuff to work through but we didn't so got onto trying again. I conceived on cycle 2 after the mc

My doc made us wait 3 months...but partly cause it was a missed mc and partly cause of suspected molar pregnancy..then we conceived straight after that 12 weeks.

We were told to wait a month (after a natural MC) but I think that was to get dates easily.  We tried to wait but slipped up once...just once!!! and here we are impatiently waiting for this bubs to arrive.

 

Good luck.  Take the time you need.  Some people need time, some dont.  I have no regrets about falling pregnant so soon but as kebakat said, I didnt have any emotional stuff to work through either.

Hey bex, like I said in my PM, I m/c in July and found out I was preg with Caden in late september.
Just do whatever you feel is right for you, if you want to try right away then do so, if you want to wait a little while then wait

I had a natural, early m/c in Feb '06 and conceived 2 cycles later... but both cycles were 5-6 weeks long.

I had a miscarriage in february 2008 and am still trying to get pregnant its taking a long time

My Son who I miss so much RIP Feb 2008


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Thanks guys for all your input... surfergirl I think we are sort of in the same boat you are.. my partner and i have talked and i think we want to start trying again after next period but i am worried he only wants to because he knows i want so bad. I have asked him and he says he wants to so i know i should trust him on that its just that the last pregnancy was such a surprise and i feel because he has a choice this time (although completely into it after the initial shock last time) that maybe he wont want one now. Also MIL though she was really excited with the pregnancy last time, whenever i talk about us trying again now she goes all silent and then changes the subject. I dont know what to do...i want a baby but i dont know when the right time is, i dont want to make anyone unhappy either. I dont even know if this post makes any sense sorry guys lol.

I definately felt those were wise words and i think one thing that helped to know we wont be trying to replace the baby we lost is we have named it , Hope and DP came up with the idea to find a little 'H' Charm for my charm bracelet aswell. I feel like there is no way we could replace the baby we lost, That baby was its own wee soul and will always be in our hearts now its about bringing a brother or sister into the world and Hope will help to give me courage to do that.

Aagh i feel like that makes no sense but we just wanted to make sure we keep the memory alive of this baby.

Oh Bex...you are being so brave and again I am so sorry for your loss....I have thought of you and Foxxy often....

After my MC in July, the Specialist said we could start trying whenever we felt we were ready. For us we were ready straight away and only waited for one cycle...it took me 4 months to conceive again, which like Rianna seemed like AGES!

I wish you all the best, you will know when the time is right...

xxoo